SWEET MEMORIES OF ONOME 5

Hi  guys sorry about the foot note i mistakenly added to the end of the last update i normally put this so i will be reminded  from where to continue the narrative..

The next couple of days and ensuing weeks was the happiest for me,finally ONOME had agreed to go out with me and i was over the moon,one thing that was patently obvious and which endeared me more to her is her innocence and total trust in me each time i went out to house parties with my friends just thinking about her is enough to start disturbing my conscience and i will chill out and be on my own while my friends were chatting girls

up..everyone started to tab me and make fun of me as a married man,even though i was embarrassed when they did this nevertheless i was not bothered because i was blissfully in love with ONOME.. she showed another part to her caring side calling me even more than i called her and checking up on me…

she also always like it when i say i love you at the end of phone conversations which i didn't have any problem with the issue however was when my friends were around and i became embarrassed to say it or mumbling it lol

All the while we were going out,one of the conditions she gave me as soon as we were officially dating was that she was not ready for sex yet,as she was still healing from a very bad and abusive relationship with a guy that disvirgined her according to her the guy forced himself on her even against her will and it caused a big issue with her family and the guy's she said what really made her distraught psychologically and still made her self conscious till today was the guy sending a text out to many of her friends and his friends that her parents used her disabled hand as a ritual which not only affected her but made her parents and brother really distraught so it had been very difficult to trust any other guy for a while until i came along..she said her mother was a very good judge of character and she has often been proved right several times especially about friends she and her brother brought home hence the reason she trusted in her mum's high opinion of me..this put further pressure on me not to mess about with her especially with all that she has been through in her very young life…

Everyone of her friends from school and generally knew us as a couple,and also all my friends as well anywhere we went she always got a second and even third look from guys which made me feel really cool as well…Even though normally i would have engineered how to sleep with her,and even some of my very few friends and my brother was urging me on to put that plan into action,everything she had told me about herself and also the love i have for her dissuaded me from doing anything that might hurt her.

I was known in her house so i was free to come and go as i liked although we didn't go into her room,we stayed either in their other living room or the outside of the compound if we have to be inside it was with his brother gifting about football and movies generally..in my house as well her beauty and innocence made her a hit especially with my mum…the way my mum warned me not to hurt the girl even without knowing anything about her other than being "a friend" you will think she is the one that gave birth to the girl lol she was really serious about it that i began to ask myself that hope i have not gone past my boundary…anyway we continued like this for several weeks chatting online when we can be together,speaking on the phone almost everyday,Facebook countless hours and hanging out in each other's houses all the while the farthest i ever went was kissing her and playing with her breasts and this was mostly at her prompting me…

I think it was probably 3months after we had been going out,but my mum had to travel out to the united states for about a month,during this time my elder brothers had been secretly planning a house party but kept it flexible until such a time as they were sure my dad will be travelling to our home town for the weekend…the plans for my mum's travel was underway and she was using the usual foodstuffs and nigerian vcds to give my brother,even though we kept telling her that nollywood is everywhere on the internet lol she was really excited to see my brother especially because of the "you must marry this year" mission she was going to see him for on the day of her night flight we all followed her to the Muritala Mohammed international Airport to board her flight,i think something was wrong with her ticket and she was upstairs in the air france office dragging it with them while we were downstairs just chilling out and walking up and down my elder brother going all the way to the far end for GOD knows what..he was even lucky he was not arrested as an airport tout lol

After about 15minutes he suddenly rushed back and asked me to be his "wing man" apparently while  on the far end he had met some girls who were studying in the united kingdom going back that night and had begin chatting them up the older one he wanted was ok with him but the younger one who was my age was the one throwing a spanner in the works,he said the younger girl was really saucy and mischievous interrupting and asking him embarrassing questions so he lied to them that he could not leave me alone where i was so i dont get lost hence excused himself to drag me there…i really was not interested partly because of ONOME,and also i was a bit down to see mum travelling(although i would never admit this when i am not a small pikin lol) and it was just one of those days….reluctantly i agreed to go there with him and just do the barest minimum until he got the numbers he wanted then i can leave in peace.

When we got there,the girls were surprisingly beautiful although not in the league of ONOME by a long shot,just the normal western girl looking fresh and clean and dressed up really nice.we got chatting with them, i engaged the other girl in conversation.. their dad was late but their mum works in shell as a manager and they both schooled in england the one of my age was in college getting ready for university the next year same as me while the older one was already in the university same as my brother….my brother had been told already that he will be going to the uk for masters but not until a year after when he would have sered because he was in his final year then,but trust him he lied to the girls that he was going to the uk in a couple of months time being sponsored by his employers lol

as he continued lying through his teeth,even i was looking at him in wonderment and horror the girls were fun to chat with and we all exchanged information about Nigerian club scene and the london club scene,finally their flight was called and everyone of them got on the queue my brother was still chatting with her until i used style to text his phone that hope he remembered mum might be looking for us now,with that he told the girls that he had to park well before they towed his car(another lie lol)

(the narrative of my escapade with this girl will be related later on because something happened between us much later )

 So we rushed back to see mum already worried and looking around for us,when she saw us she directed her anger at my brother tearing into him although she had managed to sort out her ticket issue…we kept quiet not saying anything until her airfrance flight was called and she became gentle and contrite already missing us as well she hugged us and asked us to be good in her absence promising to check on everything we did and we nodded dutifully looking all innocent.As soon as she went inside the inner recess of the airport waving frantically at us as she disappeared,we turned round and went outside to locate where the car was parked..my brother punched the air in excitement and talking about his house party he was already planning how he will organise it and who he was going to invite and not invite,i got in on the whole excitement because i would get to invite a few friends as well and there is nothing like a good house party to make you seem extra cool amongst my school mates..

Through my brother's detective work,he learnt that my dad will be travelling as usual for a family meeting in the home town and the burial of his old principal also in our home town so he will definitely be away on that particular saturday 2weeks from the present week…planning a party is not a big deal since all you need is enough drinks and good music he didn't provide any food just some snacks for the girls he got a deejay arranged and started buying drinks,he made an invitation and started sharing it out to his friends for helping him to smuggle some alcohol in my dad's study i was rewarded by being allowed to invite only 4 people.Without thinking twice i invited ONOME and also my friend that i went with to ONOME'S house with..after i told ONOME about it she begged me to invite one of her friends as she really wanted to hang out with my friend..aparently she was the same girl that he was chatting with on the day of ONOME'S party and she was really fancying my friend who i must admit was a very handsome guy light in complexion and already over 6ft even at that age..

Even though i was not part of his party planning committee(that was him and his close friends)i could feel the adrenaline and testosterone in the air as the day to the party got near…they were moving drinks and plastic cups and other things they will need around as my brother hid things away from my dad..he would never have succeeded if my mum was around but my dad didn't bother about checking around and he was not around much anyway…

i was the glorified errand boy and i dared not complain if i wanted to invite my friends to the party invitation or no invitation….the main problem we now had from my own side which me and ONOME discussed about was how to talk to her mum about allowing her to go for an overnight party…i could not even make the suggestion as i saw it as an insult to her mum or even brother but she asked me to give her sometime so she will work something out…

Four days later she texted me that she had gotten the solution,with heartbeat racing fervently,i called her and she told me that she had told her mum and as we suspected she refused outright..after much pleading on her part her mum asked her what sort of party it was and she skilfully told her that it was my brother's  birthday party which was  not strictly true as it was just a party with no purpose other than to show off…after assuring her mum that my parents would be at home including my mum(she had no idea my mum had travelled lol) and also informing her mum that she would be going with her friend whom her mum trusted and that they would be given a separate room to sleep in her mum said she will agree on the condition that she spoke to me and i assured her of all this….

I was really scared and nervous to blatantly lie to her mum,but her insistence and assurance that it was cool made us call her mum,all through my nervous disposition and asking GOD for forgiveness i lied to her mum by confirming all that ONOME had told her,including the fact that i will arrange one of the self contained rooms i the BQ for them to sleep adding that they were very neat clean and had all the proper facilities..after some hesitation she agreed especially because ONOME had always been a good girl and never had any cause to doubt her….

As the countdown to the fateful saturday continued one thing that seemed funny or odd to me looking back now was that ONOME was unlike her normal conservative and traditional self…although we were both excited about the party but she began to send sexually suggestive texts to me,and attached messages like i can't wait to have you all to myself and what plans have you got for us on saturday? i became confused and apprehensive not because of anything but because one one hand i was not sure if this girl was trying to test me to see my reaction,second i was not sure if i was reading a different meaning into a completely innocent remark and i did not want to mess up the goodwill i had been building up with her all these months..remember one of the conditions i said she gave me/ NO SEX TILL SHE WAS READY another one was no sleepover..so all i could do was reply back with cryptic answer like OK…WAIT AND SEE…THAT WOULD BE TELLING…i was replying with words that had multiple meanings although might be construed as sexy but at the same time if she was testing me i too could hide under the different meanings and say that was not what i meant….

In spite of this however,i won't lie as a fairly experienced guy in the art of love making,and having been introduced to the intricacies of sex by older and more experienced ladies and having had my fill of regular sex ever since,being with ONOME had been the longest time i had gone without sex..the overwhelming love and adoration i had for her and her values and personality had deadened the desire for sex and i had pushed it and pressed the thoughts out of my mind..i am sure that maybe a couple of months down the line i would have brought it up,but as at that time i was still able to cope although the conji that held me down that time the smell of a girl/ladies perfume or just a touch on my arm will make my dick instantly spring to life…

ONOME'S sexually suggestive texts and jokes over the course of a couple of days the week before the party began to awaken the sexual inhibitions and frustrations within me,it began to stir my sexually still and unresponsive mindset to action and brought out the erotic side of me that i had tamed and tied down in a bid to be a good and faithful boyfriend to ONOME…as hard as i tried not to,once the sleeping giant had been awaken there was no sleeping or hiding again because the chains had been broken..i began to think about sleeping with ONOME,how the party would be an ideal time for us to do it and all that…each time my conscience comes calling ,warning me and trying to suppress these feelings i will reply back that "i was not trying to have sex with ONOME or sleep with her..i was trying to "make love to her"