A FEMALE READER NEEDS ADVICE

Hi there guys,I trust you all had an awesome new year celebrations hope shayo no too much like me or you ll be suffering an hangover like I am today to eat sef now na problem but GOD is able lol. I was going to start this new year sharing my escapades with the calabar girls and my very first experience of a sex orgy..although I do not realise this was what was called an orgy at this time. However overnight I got an email from a female reader and she asked me to post it on here..after reading it I was at a loss because this is a brand new blog with few readers I advised her via email this morning that she will be better off sharing in nairaland or one of the numerous blogs with more readers but she insisted that she had her reasons for not sending the story to these other blogs, one of the reasons according to her was because her new husband visits those other blogs regularly hence was bound to  see this and realise it applied to him.

According to her instructions I have changed the words and the style she wrote it in to my style of writing but  mostly in her own words. This is a true story and the lady presently lives and works with her husband in the United Kingdom .

Please read on.....


My names are...........and I am in my mid twenties,my secondary school was in Benin city igbinedion secondary school and thereafter got admission to university of Ibadan where I graduated as a medical doctor.My housemanship was done at the UCH Ibadan and thereafter I got a job in Lagos state in a private hospital as a GP on the island Victoria island precisely.
During my time in the university of Ibadan my third year ,I met ........not only was he aesthetically pleasing to the eye,he was serious about studies,ambitious and a strong believer in GOD..I wouldn't call it love at first sight but we met as fellow volunteers in one of the volunteer groups in the church we attended,I got on well  with him same as I did with other fellow students but we seemed to get on better because incidentally he was two years my senior and also studying medicine..
Unknown to me,he had signified his interest in me to the pastor in charge of the church seeing as the pastor could not force me or mandate me to go out with him but he wanted things to flow smoothly and naturally between us,he arranged for both of us to volunteer in the same  department in church so we were in close proximity and unwittingly on my part anyway had one reason or the other to hang out . Although I did not have any other intentions towards him other than as a friend because to be honest with you I was quite attractive and I did not want for male attention but my female intuition let me know this guy seems to be interested in me.
Long story short he expressed his feelings and after the usual naija girl shakara,I succumbed to his charms and we started dating.I had no reason to doubt his love and affection,he was caring to a fault and attentive to my every needs he will even cook and do stuffs you will never catch a proper naija man doing especially him being a full blooded ibo man from......
We dated from that time till he graduated from university and went for his housemanship while I was still in the university it was hard but we made the most of it besides I didn't have time for social outings because any mistake and you are out and I didn't want any extra year.

In my final year at university,he got an opportunity to travel abroad to the UK via a working scholarship he won on the basis of his research,this research was sponsored by one of the UK based science and medical research institutes, after he spoke to me about it we realised it was a good opportunity more money and considering we were going to get married we needed a secure financial future..so I agreed and he left for the United Kingdom.

I successfully passed out and then went for my housemanship,he came back to Nigeria on a visit during this time and spent most of the time with me,the final night before he was due to fly back to his base,he proposed to me to my joy and happiness.several months later,we got engaged and threw a small party to celebrate and make it official that he was on Lock down so make any naija and london girls beware(party was my idea lol) i splashed our pics all over my bb and fb,used our pics as dp both on twitter,fb,bbm and even set up a wedding website....having heard about what Nigerian men get up to in uk,I asked a couple of my friends including my nephew living in London to use style to keep an eye on him,they will drop by at his house without warning to see if they will catch him out but all their reports about him was positive..I daily thanked GOD for my blessings in making the right choice..I must admit I as even a bit proud and I showed off when I was with my friends talking about our partners..

After I finished housemanship,without boring you with the details we had both the traditional  marriage and white wedding and I must admit we both looked mega awesome on the day,it was full of fun and dancing. One of the top deejays was a family friend to him played free for our wedding which was awesome it was not just my happiest day but my mum was overjoyed my dad is Late but my uncle stood in and I couldn't be happier with his role if my dad was alive..
My brand new husband had taken time off work in the uk for his wedding and honeymoon likewise me too, so we had a couple of weeks to test drive "every every" if you know what I mean lol…. anyway we went to Ghana on honeymoon and it was really lovely I'm sure all my fb and twitter friends would have gotten fed up with my continuous updates including picture updates several times a day.. later on we  both had to return back to work, he left for the UK to start the process of filling my papers to join him, while I continued working and life went back to normal.We communicated every day by Skype and bb he calls at least four times a week and we kept romance alive in this way... several months passed and eventually  he called me that he had all the necessary papers for my trip to the UK which he sent to me by fedex..to be totally honest i really did not want to go to the UK, in fact we both had several arguments to the extent that his parents and my mother had to settle it for us..the reasons I did not want to go is  because I believed I had a better chance of career advancement where I am working,I was earning a good pay and going there will mean starting from the beginning...from my enquiries the only job I could do even after the London plab exams(professional exams in uk for doctors) are like laboratory/clinical assistants,a lot of my classmates who rushed there advised me to stay back in Nigeria since I have a good job,all this I explained to him being in the same field as I am, but he adamantly refused,funny enough his parents saw reason in my explanations but my mum explained to me that having gotten married the husband is the head of the family and his word takes precedence in the marriage. Besides,she asked how I could be several miles away from my husband and expect to give her grandchildren...if you knew my mum you will know that no matter your age you dare not argue with her.So i eventually agreed and packed all the papers  be sent to the British high commission in Abuja.I had an interview with those ones asking their yeye questions as if UK is heaven, anyway they sha gave me the visa eventually and I went to join my sweetheart as we started living as husband and wife.

Things were really cool when I got there but being used to working and earning a living it started to get really boring for me not doing anything but watching  sky Tv,Nollywood movies and eating ,he went out to work in the morning as a GP and also a research assistant in a medical research centre outside London and came back like 5pm.We lived in a two bed terrace house in a nice quiet area and had a few Nigerian friends but mostly South African,Zimbabwe and some English including church members who are mostly yoruba and they all were very nice people especially the church people they showed me the sights and took me out to different sights i love photography as a hobby and it was an opportunity for me to take photos of several sights being in my twenties there were several youths of my age who i also got on well with in the church.My husband and i also went out on Weekends to cinemas and dined out as well, things were going normally although like I was adviced getting a job was really difficult,I was studying for my plab exams and could not wait to pass it and be free to look for and hopefully find a nice job in my field.

However,after the first one month I began to feel something was not right although I could not place my finger on it,my family and even friends know that my powers of observation and  intuition was almost like a prophets.I don't know why but I began to feel at ease in the house..anytime I entered the second bedroom in our house,my head will suddenly expand as if I was seeing a supernatural sight...I searched and looked around but I didn't find anything strange so i tried to get it out of my mind but it was still bothering me nevertheless.
I complained severally to my husband but he waived my fears away telling me not to worry and that the only spirit or being present with us is that of  the holy spirit and GOD..I kept my fears to myself because I was still having the same uncanny feeling and i didn't want to unnecessarily bother him with my own issues...

One day after my husband had gone to work,I thought I heard a faint sound like a bell ringing from afar,I thought it was the tv so I muted it but I still heard it faintly, I looked outside the window….nothing! and I know for a fact that there are no churches around our neighbourhood.I went outside the garden to look outside and i didn't hear the sound anymore,i then went back inside still hearing the sound and began to trace where it was coming from and it seemed from upstairs in our bedroom,with a thudding heartbeat almost paralysed with fear I checked our bedroom and nothing! and realised it seemed as if it was coming from the second room which was on the far left near the bathrooms, as I got to the doorway I felt something like ice block all over my body, when I pushed the door opebi felt the sensation of my head expanding including the cold sensation as my body started to shake uncontrollably but the sound had ceased..Some might say it might be the cold in UK but the heating was always on full blast as i was not yet used to the cold besides dont forget i  am a fully qualified medical doctor so the first thing i did later was to check myself for any vital signs that i was not feeling well.

 I rushed out of the room and downstairs and outside the house as i quickly fumbled for the phone dialling my husband to try and come home as soon as he can,he rushed  and came as fast as he could,meeting me outside and I narrated my experience him..armed with  a bible he retrieved from his car and some olive oil in his car we began casting and binding all evil spirits as we moved from downstairs to the staircase and upstairs to the rooms, him In front  while i was using him to shield myself.We anointed the whole house with olive oil and he assured me that all was well, I assured him I will be okay urging him to go back to work but as soon as he left, I carried my hand bag and went to while away the time in a shopping complex not far from our house just looking around..I endured this for several months until one fateful night when my life was turned completely upside down by what I saw and why I need advice from well meaning Nigerians before I run completely mad...




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